Friday, June 24, 2011
Race Run Through
Thursday, June 23, 2011
There are no more Cade girls
| The dogs are in the back seat and ready to get going! |
| Trisha with her party outfit, and her pimp cup. We really took her out looking like that :) |
| A great shot with Uncle Wayne and Aunt Sharon! |
| Trisha and I take a pic together at the dinner! We look good! |
| Our cute tanks that Trisha gave us! |
| Trisha and Rob Passorelli (and bunny) |
We arrived back Tuesday evening, and I took yesterday as a catch up day. Jacob graduates on Sunday, which means we only have a few days before we are going to Tybee Island for 4 days. I have my priorities straight, and am preparing for Jacob's departure. I am in good mind and spirit, if that makes sense.
I am so glad I was able to spend these past two weeks and be in MI with my family. I love GA, but there is something to be said about a small town life.
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
The Small Town of Zeeland
I had a decently big graduating class, because Zeeland is the school district for the surrounding smaller farming communities, which are not cities, some are villages. Zeeland has even added a second high school, because of the growing numbers. There were around 200 of us who graduated in 2002. If I was given a list of the graduates I would know at least 90% of them. So still pretty small town.
Growing up in a town like Zeeland has its pros and cons. I think leaving Zeeland, has helped me appreciate my upbringing. I can come back here and remember all of the fun memories. Riding my bike everywhere, beginning at age 10. Roller hockey in city streets, running around town until the street lights came on. Most of my memories are of running around outside. Seeing kids outside is something that doesn't happen very often in Atlanta. It might be the new generation, or it might be just growing up in a small town. I did live a pretty carefree life, and I do have a lot of great memories.
But sometimes when I come back home I am reminded of why I felt the need to move somewhere else. Living in a small town, and working in one of the only restaurants downtown, made it so people know who I am. Rumors can be started quickly. I actually wasn't victim to this until I left for college. Unfortunately some people actually believed the rumors, and to be honest I didn't care enough at the time to come back and try to stop the damage. But I was brought back to high school behavior, when a "friend" from high school, who believed the rumors, saw me at a local sandwich place. I was going to walk up and say hello, but she saw me, picked up her sandwich, she was already eating, and left out a side door. Pure rejection in my face. Small towns can be narrow minded.
But I guess I shouldn't loop the entire small town in this way. Most of my step-dad's family lives here, and a lot of real friends. I have had lunch, ice cream dates, dinners, and coffee dates with many others who saw through the lies, or just don't care very much. I have to remember a lot of my friends from high school have decided to settle down, and are working on raising families here. And really I think that is a great idea. Their children will get to experience life very similar to my upbringing. I think of Zeeland as a great place to have grown up. It can be hard coming home because of the way some people look at me. I moved away. I am most likely never coming back. That is a hard thing for some to understand.
But I guess I have to remember it is not the small town of Zeeland that I am afraid to confront. It is the few small minded people who just happen to be here. Overall I am happy I chose to come back for two weeks. I haven't been back for longer than 3 days for 9 years. That is a pretty long time to stay away. But having withstood my ultimate fear of rejection, it wasn't so bad. I am not afraid to run into people I knew...which happens anytime I leave the house......
Monday, June 13, 2011
A Trip to FL and on to MI

Shane and I were college room mates that be came best friends. We officially met through a friend our Sophomore year at Western Michigan. I needed a room mate to take the extra bedroom through the summer, and Shane was looking for a cheap place to stay to take summer classes. And so we tried it. If I remember right we had only met a few times, I think like two, before he officially moved in. But it ended up working out great. We became close friends who finished our last two years together as room mates. We love each other so much, you could say to death. We argue a lot, and neither one of us backs down. We are both quirky, stubborn, and opinionated. But somehow our friendship has with stood 7 years. I would say I would do almost anything for him. He met Diana their first year at Optometry School, but it took him a few years to ask her out. But when I officially met her, I knew she was perfect for Shane, and told him so :) I just feel so honored that I was able to be part of their big day, and part of their lives!

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We got back from FL on Monday and I left with Lola and Lucie for MI on Wednesday. I am needed to get ready water aerobics so I will have to write more about my MI adventures at a later date.